| Location | Glasgow |
| Age | 27 days |
| Cause of Death | Not Listed? |
| Date of Birth | 18/11/2008 |
| Date of Death | 15/12/2008 |
| Visitors | 3,273 since 10/01/2009 |
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baby paul was born on the 18th nov 08 at 01.55am - 25+5 days (born 15 wks early) by emergency
caesarean due to cord prolapse, BREECH as that was immediate threat to me or baby paul his weight
was 930grams (2lb's & 1 oz's) and breathing on his own, he was took up to NEONATAL UNIT and was
stable in ICU, and i was took to the CARDIAC WARD for 24 hr monitoring as my heart rate was slipping
while having my caesarean, i saw baby paul for the first time late wed night. that night the wee man
had a blood tranfusion and was comfortable.. the next few days he caught a chest infection, he was
forgettin to breath so he was put on the ventilater so he could have a rest while the infection was
gettin treated.. the next few days he was back off the ventilater and breathing on his own and he
was a wee rascal as his oxygen levels were up and down due to him keeping his mouth opened, then the
next few days he was back on the ventilater due to him catching another infection but he was tryin
to fight the ventilater by tryin to breath while being ventilated so they had to sedate him, then on
the 9th dec 08 we got a phone call at 08.50am and was told baby paul wasn't feeling too well could
we come up... once we were at the hosp baby paul was a funny colour and his tummy was all bloated
out, he got an x-ray and when they changed his nappy their was blood in it, we were told that he had
NECROTISING ENTEROCOLITIS known as NEC + PATENT DUCTUS ARTERIOUS he only had 20% chance of
surviving this as its a miracle if they do, but he fought long and hard as the nurses & docs
weren't expecting him to last as long as he did..the poor wee guy had blood coming up out of his
mouth which was frightening for me and his daddy, he was critically ill the next few days so paul
decided to stay overnight with him on sunday the 14th dec 08 then i got a phone call on the monday
at 06.41am to come up as baby paul was very poorly, i got to the hosp at 07.10 but baby paul had
already past away at 7 am, the doc took all the tubes & needles out and we got to hold him for the
first time, baby paul gave up his fight as NEC just got too much for him and we're so proud of him
but he's in no more pain now...forgot to mention when baby paul past away we got asked if we wanted
a post morton on him just to see how bad NEC had infected his wee body and to check if their was
anything else but we said no as we'd thought he'd been thru enough just let him rest now...
R.I.P BABY PAUL XXXXXXX
written by baby paul's mummy
WHAT IS NEC
Necrotising enterocolitis (NEC) is a serious illness in which tissues in the intestine (gut) become
inflamed and start to die. This can lead to a perforation (hole) developing which allows the
contents of the intestine to leak into the abdomen (tummy). This can cause a very dangerous
infection.
NEC can be difficult to diagnose but the symptoms tend to include general signs of illness, problems
feeding, and a swollen and tender abdomen. NEC is the most common surgical emergency in newborn
babies and tends to affect more babies born prematurely than those born full-term. NEC seems to
becoming more common, but it is likely that this is because more premature babies are surviving.
UNFORTUNITLY BABY PAUL DIDN'T SURVIVE AS HE WAS TOO SMALL TO BE OPERATED ON, IF HE WAS THAT WE BIT
OLDER AND HIS WEE BODY HAD BEEN STRONG ENOUGH TO COPE WITH SURGERY THEN HE WOULD BE HERE TODAY
R.I.P WEE MAN MUMMY AND DADDY LOVE YOU LOADS AND MISS YOU SO MUCH XXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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════╔══╗GONE BUT
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════║══║PAUL
════║══║JOHN
════║══║AITKEN
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we'd like to thank everyone who lights a candle, writes a tribute and sending gifts to our baby
paul, its mean alot xxxx
Just dropping by to say hello
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to a very special angel.
all my love always victoria xxx
I NEED TO SAY GOODBYE
ALTHOUGH YOU'RE WITH ME.
I STAND BESIDE YOUR GRAVE,
YET YOU ARE HERE ,
I MISS YOU TERRIBLY AND
HOPE YOU MISS ME,
BUT WHEN I TURN TO YOU,
YOU ARE ALWAYS NEAR.
I TALK TO YOU AS THOUGH
YOU LIVED WITHIN ME.
NOT CHANGED BUT SIMPLY
MOVED IN FROM OUTSIDE.
I KNOW EACH DAY YOU
MUST A LITTLE LEAVE ME,
BUT HERE.AS ALWAYS YOU
MUST BE MY GUIDE.
YOU WERE AND ARE AND WILL BE,
JUST AS EVER IN MANY MINDS
AND HEARTS,NOT ONLY MINE,
NO PHYSICAL EVENT CAN SUCH
LOVE SEVER;DEATH IS A DIMENSION,
NOT A LINE AND SO GOODBYE DOES
NOT MEAN YOU ARE GONE,SO LONG
AS I STILL LOVE YOU,YOU LIVE ON.
HAPPY EASTER XXX
XXXX HERE'S THE EASTER BUNNY XXXX
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BRINGING EGGS FOR YOU IN HEAVEN
X HAPPY EASTER ANGEL X
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HAPPY EASTER
HEY LITTLE MAN HAPPY EASTER LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER, HOPE YOU LIKE YOUR GARDEN WITH ALL THE LOVELY EASTER GIFTS MUMMY AND DADDY GOT YOU..
NIGHT NIGHT LITTLE MAN SWEET DREAMS XXXXXXXXXXXX
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ALL MY LOVE ALWAYS VICTORIA XXX
♥ WITH LOVE AT EASTER. ♥
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Memories of Easter past
Keep them in your heart
Know that I am at my best
With wings that never part
Standing right beside you
With wings that span so wide
Covering you with so much love
You're beauty at my side
Every prayer you whisper
Comes with special glow
Know that I am with you
Everywhere you go
Especially now at Easter
With special golden wings
I'm smiling down on loved ones
My soul forever sings
I'll send a special Halo
To shine above you all
With peace and love my memory
My memory covers you with shawl. ♥
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☆ LOVE TO YOU ☆
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Love Mckenzie's mummy xxx
LOVE YOU
hey little man love you always and forever xxxxxxxxxxx
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Sleep Tight Beautiful...
Whact over Your Mummy &* Daddy
Your Doing A Great Job So Far(:
Thinking Of You Little One
Rest Your Tiny Head
Love Rachel.x3
Angel
No longer here on earth
You are missed so very much
Your friends and family want you
Long to feel your touch.
We keep you in our hearts
Our love we send your way
Your angel wings in heaven
Feel it every day.
For the time that you were here
You really left your mark
Those left behind were
Feeling cold and dark
Now you are an Angel
In gods garden you are free
You send your love with raindrops
Saying it’s just a kiss from me
We will always love you Angel
You are our heart and soul
Your light shines brightly on us
It helps to fill your hole.
Until I get to heaven
Please keep a place for me
I’d like to be with you
When it’s time to be set free.
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