| Location | Glasgow |
| Age | 27 days |
| Cause of Death | Not Listed? |
| Date of Birth | 18/11/2008 |
| Date of Death | 15/12/2008 |
| Visitors | 6,914 since 10/01/2009 |
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baby paul was born on the 18th nov 08 at 01.55am - 25+5 days (born 15 wks early) by emergency caesarean due to cord prolapse, BREECH as that was immediate threat to me or baby paul his weight was 930grams (2lb's & 1 oz's) and breathing on his own, he was took up to NEONATAL UNIT and was stable in ICU, and i was took to the CARDIAC WARD for 24 hr monitoring as my heart rate was slipping while having my caesarean, i saw baby paul for the first time late wed night. that night the wee man had a blood tranfusion and was comfortable.. the next few days he caught a chest infection, he was forgettin to breath so he was put on the ventilater so he could have a rest while the infection was gettin treated.. the next few days he was back off the ventilater and breathing on his own and he was a wee rascal as his oxygen levels were up and down due to him keeping his mouth opened, then the next few days he was back on the ventilater due to him catching another infection but he was tryin to fight the ventilater by tryin to breath while being ventilated so they had to sedate him, then on the 9th dec 08 we got a phone call at 08.50am and was told baby paul wasn't feeling too well could we come up... once we were at the hosp baby paul was a funny colour and his tummy was all bloated out, he got an x-ray and when they changed his nappy their was blood in it, we were told that he had NECROTISING ENTEROCOLITIS known as NEC + PATENT DUCTUS ARTERIOUS he only had 20% chance of surviving this as its a miracle if they do, but he fought long and hard as the nurses & docs
weren't expecting him to last as long as he did..the poor wee guy had blood coming up out of his mouth which was frightening for me and his daddy, he was critically ill the next few days so paul decided to stay overnight with him on sunday the 14th dec 08 then i got a phone call on the monday at 06.41am to come up as baby paul was very poorly, i got to the hosp at 07.10 but baby paul had already past away at 7 am, the doc took all the tubes & needles out and we got to hold him for the first time, baby paul gave up his fight as NEC just got too much for him and we're so proud of him but he's in no more pain now...forgot to mention when baby paul past away we got asked if we wanted a post morton on him just to see how bad NEC had infected his wee body and to check if their was anything else but we said no as we'd thought he'd been thru enough just let him rest now...
R.I.P BABY PAUL XXXXXXX
written by baby paul's mummy
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WHAT IS NEC
Necrotising enterocolitis (NEC) is a serious illness in which tissues in the intestine (gut) become inflamed and start to die. This can lead to a perforation (hole) developing which allows the contents of the intestine to leak into the abdomen (tummy). This can cause a very dangerous infection.
NEC can be difficult to diagnose but the symptoms tend to include general signs of illness, problems feeding, and a swollen and tender abdomen. NEC is the most common surgical emergency in newborn babies and tends to affect more babies born prematurely than those born full-term. NEC seems to becoming more common, but it is likely that this is because more premature babies are surviving.
UNFORTUNITLY BABY PAUL DIDN'T SURVIVE AS HE WAS TOO SMALL TO BE OPERATED ON, IF HE WAS THAT WE BIT OLDER AND HIS WEE BODY HAD BEEN STRONG ENOUGH TO COPE WITH SURGERY THEN HE WOULD BE HERE TODAY
R.I.P WEE MAN MUMMY AND DADDY LOVE YOU LOADS AND MISS YOU SO MUCH XXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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โโโโโโโโJOHN
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we'd like to thank everyone who lights a candle, writes a tribute and sending gifts to our baby paul, its mean alot xxxx
happy new year xxx
hey little man happy new year hope you had a nice party in heaven with all the family up their, we had a quiet one with my cousin and your daddy was sober coz he's looking after mummy... hope you enjoyed the fireworks at the bells..
mummy was at the hospital last week gettin a scan but still dont know what we're having, the bugger had its legs shut so hopefully we'll find out on your daddies birthday as thats when we go back for another scan and hopefully the docs will take me in soon to look after me just incase i go into prem labour again...
well little man am going to head off need to get daddy out of bed and go shopping so i'll be back on soon and pls look after us from above, your my little guardian angel xxxx
love you always sweetheart mummy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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merry christmas little man
hey little man hope your having a a good christmas up in heaven with all your angel friends, love you always and miss you so much xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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hey sweetheart 3 years ago today was the day you grew your wings, what a dreadful horrible day for mummy and daddy, but it was the 1st time we got to hold you in our arms and you looked so peaceful, you fought soo long and hard little man as docs didnt think you would last until the 15th dec but you proved them wrong am just gutted that mummy was wasnt with you when you past away and docs shouldve took you out so that daddy could hold you to say goodbye while you where still here, but your in no more pain and hope your happy where ever you are.. love you always little man, sweet dreams xxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
hey lil man just came on to leave u wee message, mummy and daddy cleared your garden away today so its all ready for a new look after the new year,
we've got you some new stones and i'm going to lay some frestly painted stone edgings arround your garden , we'll have to bring you some new toys up, soon,
well gotta go son love you millions xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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happy 3rd birthday
hey little man happy birthday!! 3 already where has the time gone, it hurts more and more each day that your not here with us, got you a big number 3 balloon for your garden and jinky's scared of it but he still goes over to it to try and bite the ribbon, wish you where here to sort jinky out for his crap lol, hope you have a great birthday party with all the other angels in the sky little man,will be thinking of you all day as i do everyday, but this day is special as its another year we never got to see you grow and open all your prezzies, love you always little man and have a great birthday from mummy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
hey lil man a still cant believe its your 3rd birthday tomorrow really wish you were here with mummy and me, watchin your little face lighting up when you see your prezzies,
ive just been reading all your tributes and there all nice, what your cousin lisa wrote was really nice and its nice that she lights a candle for you every year, what i said to her was wrong and hurtful and ive regretted saying it for a long time,
well lil man daddys going now we'll come see you hope you'll be in this time lol love you with all y heart son xxxxxxx
hey little man canny believe your 3rd birthday is on friday, so wish you where here, wish mummy and daddy could see you open your prezzies.. mummies on medication for my heart so hopefully my heart can cope with the rest of this pregnancy little man, i.m now 16 wks and docs are keeping a close eye on me, still tryin to get a move out of this house as its no suitable, just waitin on letters from doctors and hope to get something soon, hope your being a good boy up their, mummy and daddy will be at your garden on your birthday, was going to take the fence away and tidy it up but going to wait until the good weather comes in to get it all sorted, well little man going to head off now going to pick up your daddy then get dinner, love you always son, pls pls look after mummy and your unborn baby sis or bro, we'll let you know soon as we find out if its a brother or sister your going to have, love you sweetheart mummy and daddy xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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hey lil guy, thought id leave u a wee message to let u know we still think of u everyday,, light a lil candle for u yesterday along with one for your lil cuz hope ur looking after them for me iam sure u r,, i hope ur being a good boy for ur auntie maggie and uncle john,,, love u wee guy floaty kisses for u and my lil one,, sweet dreams baby boy, xxxx
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